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*How to remove ur label given by others*?(Overcoming blindspots)
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I sat in my chair quietly next to my Mom & Dad as my grade 4 teacher gave them an update on my progress at school.
“your child is a slow learner” said the school teacher quietly.
I held my breath & sank a little lower into my chair. I looked up at my dad to see if he was in trouble. My father glanced down, smiled & gave me a quick wink.
On the way home from the Parent-Teacher meeting, I thought about what Mrs. Shastri had called me – ‘Slow Learner’. Deep down I knew that what she really meant was that I was dumb.
Later that evening, my Mom & Dad came into my room carrying a piece of paper & a pen.
They sat down on the side of the bed & said, “Want to talk to you about what Mrs. Shastri said today.”
“A Slow Learner” I replied.
I had already taken the words to heart.
“That’s right” said my dad as my mother wrote the words ‘Slow Learner’ on the piece of paper.
My parents then held up the piece of paper in front me & purposefully tore it into two.
My eyes widened in surprise.
“Mrs. Shastri was wrong” said my parents as they continued to tear the paper into smaller & smaller pieces.
“You’re not a slow learner.”
“I’m not?”
“No & starting tomorrow, you & we are going to show that Mrs. Shastri was wrong, OK?”
“OK” I hugged my mom, snuggled down into my pillow & fell asleep with a smile on my face & a warm glow in my heart.
From that day on, my parents spent one hour per day helping me with my reading & writing. By the end of the year, I was doing much better at school & interestingly no one ever labeled me a ‘Slow Learner’ again.
My parents knew that when a child receives a label from a person in authority such as a teacher or parent, they often take that label to heart & it becomes a part of their self-identity for the rest of their lives.
To avoid this from happening to their child, my parents created a tangible representation of the ‘Slow Learner’ label & tore it up it in front of me so that the label would not become a part of child’s self-concept.
Today I would like to thank my Mom & Dad.
Think about the labels that people have given to you, your kids in the past & at present.
Perhaps you were given a label by one of your parents, your teacher, your spouse or your boss. What is the label that resonates in your mind???
Is there a label that has become part of your self identity because a person in a position of authority gave it to you???
If so, write this label down on a blank sheet of paper & hold it up to see it for what it really is – A Label.
It is a label – nothing more. It is not part of you & you do not have to accept it as part of your self-identity any longer.
As you begin to see the label for what it really is – Rip it in half & enjoy the feeling of destroying the label once & for all.
When you do this exercise, you will feel a surge of motivation to take action to ensure that no one attempts to give you this label again in the future.
Just as my parents took action & helped me with my school work, make sure you follow through & do whatever you need to do to eliminate the remnants of the label from your life forever.
REMEMBER
SOMEBODY'S OPINION ABOUT YOU DOESN'T HAVE TO BECOME YOUR REALITY
A teacher's / a Parent's purpose is not to create children in his own image, but to develop children who can create their own image.
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